I'm BACKKKKK!!!! - People Can Change?
7:24:00 PMHello to my 8 blog readers!!! Did ya all miss me? (feeling? Haha)
I think I must explain why I haven't been able to blog in so long before I start this entry.
1. My computer has been busted (but it's working now, yay!)
2. A lot of crazy things have been happening in my life
3. I went through a self crisis and I didn't know how to get out of my funk
So now that I'm actually writing again (it feels sooooo good to be typing on a keyboard again... Am I weird?) I decided to explore everything on my laptop and see what's been chilling on the "blog side" of things. ANO DAW.
I can't wait to start writing about everything I've been feeling lately and experiencing. I promise you all (8 lang naman kayo, so feel ko kaya ko ikeep yung promise Haha jokes.) that I'll be sharing A LOT of it. May drama (rejection, self-doubt, financial woes, identity crisis-ish) and may good times rin (travels, dates, clothes, makeup, hobbies, etc etc etc) and I know that through this blog, I can again start to feel like my old self. I've missed this and I've missed having an outlet for my Random Ramblings :)
SO ANYWAYYYYYY long introduction aside, I stumbled upon this entry I wrote and saved on my laptop. I reread it and realized, wow, this totally still applies to me now *high five past Karla who wrote this way back* so I thought I would share it with you all. Hope you enjoy this little "I'm back" piece :)
- It’s so easy for us to pass judgment on anyone except ourselves. One wrong choice from someone (HELLO, it’s not like we’ve never made bad decisions in our lives, check out your outfits of FB pics from high school nyahaha! #guilty) and it’s Judgment Buffet for us.
- People love to talk. Whether it be about the latest local/international celebrity scandal, the latest concert or party, we all talk. In short, chismoso tayong lahat (including me!)
- More often than not, the people who have the most to say, know the least. Think about it. Your friend (I’m not saying bad siya ok I’m just trying to make a point) tells you all about this girl who “everybody” (EVERYBODY as in pati family niya? The people in China? Brazil? Lahat ng mga politician? Mga guard? Mga MMDA??) hates cause she did this and that. She said this and that. Eh, di naman kayo schoolmates/batchmates/workmates/clubmates/etc etc. so how does your friend know if that’s even true?! Diba??
- The bandwagon sickness. I’ll admit to this as well. Sometimes, masaya makiride sa mga kwento and chismis. It feels good to “be in the loop” and know things about people. But remember, there’s a line that should be drawn. Just because “everyone” is saying one thing, doesn’t mean it’s true.
- I know people talk about me (uyy popular? Or FEELING popular lang? Haha!) I know there are A LOT of people out there who have A LOT to say about me (I’m not being feeling okay I know this for a fact because I have friends that tell me things and people who actually care enough to let me know what’s going on) and you know what? It’s sad. It really is sad. I feel bad in the sense that for me, get to know someone first before you hate them. Get to know someone for who they are NOW, and not for who they were BEFORE. If you don’t want to be judged for YOUR past, then don’t judge someone for THEIRS. That’s the beauty of the past- it’s not a part of your NOW or your FUTURE. Tapos na siya, so why make it important NOW? Diba?
21 comments
Thanks for sharing your thoughts to us Ate Karla, I will always support you and Kuya Nico even tho my friends keep on telling me im a JEJ na cos im FANGIRLING hahaha! -sharmaine
ReplyDeleteGod bless you po and more Projects to come!
Aww you're not "jej" Sharmaine! Thanks for reading :)
DeleteDon't mind them are karls! Bored na bored kasi sila kaya they say bad things about you. Haha People believe in you. Hope to see you more on tv na! I miss your craziness especially with kuya nico (you know, vlog haha) God bless you and your family. Take care! xx J
ReplyDeleteThank you, Jaia! Actually this is an old entry and surprisingly, wala naman "bad things" now which is AWESOME Hihi :)
DeleteFinally you're back and I promise you this, Ill be forever a follower of this blog and of course you, ate Karla!! You're such an inspiration. Huhu.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Pyra! I'm soooooo flattered! Thank youuuuu I hope I don't disappoint! :)
DeleteAaahhh!! I just missed your words! You always seem to make me feel better about things. Nakakagaan ng loob. I'm looking forward to read about your new entries Ate Karla!! Visit UST again pleaaaaaseee!!!! Stay as you are!!! <3 <3 <3
ReplyDeleteHi Regina! Thank you for this, I'm glad I provide some form of comfort. Visit UST? Well... I'm actually going to TWICE this coming October... Hihi :) Check my Twitter for more details! Hope to see you on October 11 or October 24! :)
DeleteYeah, I agree. People do change, and we shouldn't judge them right away. We don't know what they're going through. Change is not also an overnight thing. It takes time and effort.
ReplyDeleteAnyway, learned a lot fron your post. Will visit soon!:)
AMEN Marteena! Very well said. Thanks for reading! :)
DeleteHi Karla :) glad you're blogging again! Will you be sharing with us why you're no longer in MYX? We miss seeing you on tv you know :(
ReplyDeleteThank you! No, I don't think I need to go into much detail on that. But you guys can still catch me on Solar Sports! :)
DeleteI love how you reply to each comment! Will make abang on solar sports then! :)
DeleteI'm so glad you're back!!! I may not know you personally but you inspired me in some way. Reading your entries felt like I was talking to a good friend :)
ReplyDeleteAww thank you!!! I'd like to think that everyone who comes to this blog is a friend. I'm glad that this has had a positive effect on you. :)
DeleteAww this really moved me! Very well said, Karla! Please don't feel bad, everyone has their flaws, but you really are perfect to me (us) hehe! You've been my constant inspiration to live everyday to the fullest :) I hope you blog more often :) Your entries (rants haha) are all relatable and I think everyone would love your blog!! Best wishes and I'll be your constant supporter alll the waaayyyy!! - Mia Torres
ReplyDeleteHi Mia! Awww thank you so much for seeing my blog and entries as positive and comforting in a way. I never ever think I will ever get used to people being so sweet to me about my blog. It means loads to know that there are people like you out there :) May God Bless you always! xx
DeleteMaybe this is what my dream was about? "Be kinder. Be a good person". Nice to see you writing again, Karkar!
ReplyDeleteAWWW!!! Hi Jamba!!! Maybe it was? Hahaha! :)
DeleteBasta Ms. Mawawala silang lahat pero ako maiiwan. Hindi ako magsasawang magbasa ng blog mo, maniwala sayo, at suportahan ka pati si Nico. 😊
ReplyDeleteP.S Sorry, ngayon nalang ako ulit naka catch up sa blog mo.
Basta Ms. Mawawala silang lahat pero ako maiiwan. Hindi ako magsasawang magbasa ng blog mo, maniwala sayo, at suportahan ka pati si Nico. 😊
ReplyDeleteP.S Sorry, ngayon nalang ako ulit naka catch up sa blog mo.
Thanks for reading my entry! I hope you enjoyed it. :)