I wrote this a whileeeeee back and I thought I'd share it with you guys. Maybe some of you can actually relate and maybe some of you actually have this kind of a relationship.
I guess I'll never stop writing about things like this. Hihi :)
To My Future Husband
Hi.
I may not know who you are. I may not even have met you yet. Or maybe I have, and I just don’t know it but I am so excited to be with you. I cannot wait for our lives to intertwine in ways that I feel could only be imagined or dreamt of. I dream of the day when I can feel your love for me, a love that I know will last.
A kind of love that makes me smile. Not a perfect love. Not a fairy tale love. Just a love that I know in my heart is the right love. The love that people who are truly happy talk about. The love that makes a difference.
I’m not expecting you to be perfect. I know you’re not. I know you’re not some Prince Charming. But neither am I (well I’m a girl, so having “prince” for a title is definitely a no). I’m not perfect, I’m far from it. But I know that through our imperfections will come a perfect fit. A fit that God made especially for you and me. Something that feels like magic but is actually real.
I cannot wait to have conversations with you. I cannot wait to smile at you when I see you in the morning. To laugh at your silly jokes (I know in my heart you’re hilarious). To have little and insignificant adventures with you- whether it’s hunting down the best chocolate cake at restaurants or finding the best little coffee nook we can sneak into when we want to disappear from the world.
I cannot wait to get to know you. Because I know the moment I do, every bad memory, every hurt, every tear, every little piece of my torn up heart will fade. I will be okay. Not because I’m expecting you to fix me, no. I am fine. I can handle my hurts and problems. But I know that when we meet everything will be okay. Not because you will save me, because God already has. And meeting you will be the concrete proof in my petty human eyes that God does answer the most selfish and superficial of prayers. Because He loves us. And because He wants the best for us. That’s what you are to me- the best form of human love close to God’s love. Different from the love I receive from my mom and sister, from friends and strangers- a love so deep and true that it could only be because we finally found each other.
I cannot wait to have arguments with you. I know how crazy that sounds but it’s true. I cannot wait for us to fight because in those fights we grow, more in love and in understanding. I will get to know you and myself more, and together, we can strengthen our relationship.
I cannot wait to love you.
Hope to see you soon. I know God has a plan. Until then, I’ll be right here, waiting for you.
Love,
Your Future Wife
I guess I'll never stop writing about things like this. Hihi :)
To My Future Husband
Hi.
I may not know who you are. I may not even have met you yet. Or maybe I have, and I just don’t know it but I am so excited to be with you. I cannot wait for our lives to intertwine in ways that I feel could only be imagined or dreamt of. I dream of the day when I can feel your love for me, a love that I know will last.
A kind of love that makes me smile. Not a perfect love. Not a fairy tale love. Just a love that I know in my heart is the right love. The love that people who are truly happy talk about. The love that makes a difference.
I’m not expecting you to be perfect. I know you’re not. I know you’re not some Prince Charming. But neither am I (well I’m a girl, so having “prince” for a title is definitely a no). I’m not perfect, I’m far from it. But I know that through our imperfections will come a perfect fit. A fit that God made especially for you and me. Something that feels like magic but is actually real.
I cannot wait to have conversations with you. I cannot wait to smile at you when I see you in the morning. To laugh at your silly jokes (I know in my heart you’re hilarious). To have little and insignificant adventures with you- whether it’s hunting down the best chocolate cake at restaurants or finding the best little coffee nook we can sneak into when we want to disappear from the world.
I cannot wait to get to know you. Because I know the moment I do, every bad memory, every hurt, every tear, every little piece of my torn up heart will fade. I will be okay. Not because I’m expecting you to fix me, no. I am fine. I can handle my hurts and problems. But I know that when we meet everything will be okay. Not because you will save me, because God already has. And meeting you will be the concrete proof in my petty human eyes that God does answer the most selfish and superficial of prayers. Because He loves us. And because He wants the best for us. That’s what you are to me- the best form of human love close to God’s love. Different from the love I receive from my mom and sister, from friends and strangers- a love so deep and true that it could only be because we finally found each other.
I cannot wait to have arguments with you. I know how crazy that sounds but it’s true. I cannot wait for us to fight because in those fights we grow, more in love and in understanding. I will get to know you and myself more, and together, we can strengthen our relationship.
I cannot wait to love you.
Hope to see you soon. I know God has a plan. Until then, I’ll be right here, waiting for you.
Love,
Your Future Wife
