Haters Love to Hate!

By Karla Aguas - 12:30:00 PM

Here are a few ways on how to deal with some haters- whether they be cyber or real life bullies, choose to RISE ABOVE and be better.

As Rihanna once said, "Don't let the ba$tards get you down ;)"


LOVE YOURSELF

I KNOW IT SOUNDS SO CLICHE AND WHATEVER BUT SERIOUSLY, LOVE YOURSELF. WHAT I’VE COME TO FIND IS THAT IT ISN’T ABOUT HOW YOU LOOK OR WHAT YOU WEAR, BUT ABOUTWHO YOU ARE AS A PERSON. A HATER WILL ALWAYS FIND ANY PHYSICAL QUALITY ABOUT YOU TO INSULT. SO MANY HATERS HAVE CALLED ME UGLY, SAID I HAD A HUGE NOSE (AND I HONESTLY HAVE A PRETTY BIG NOSE, BUT I’VE LEARNED TO LOVE IT), THEY’VE COMPARED ME TO OTHER GIRLS (EXES OF PAST BOYFRIENDS, SUPERMODELS AND ACTRESSES) AND SAID I WAS TALENTLESS AND STUPID. SO HERE’S WHAT I’VE COME TO FIND:
FIRST, MOST ESPECIALLY WHEN IT COMES TO THE ONLINE HATERS, WELL, MAJORITY OF THEM HAVEN’T EVEN SEEN ME IN PERSON. THEY’VE NEVER SEEN OR SPOKEN TO ME. SO HOW CAN THEY KNOW IF I’M UGLY OR STUPID? IT DOESN’T MAKE SENSE. SECOND, MY WHOLE WORLD WOULD CRASH IF I SAW THESE TWEETS AND MESSAGES IF I WAS SOME SUPERFICIAL BARBIE (NO HATE TOWARDS BARBIE, BTW, I LOVED HER, I JUST LOVED G.I. JOES MORE). IF YOU LOVE YOURSELF AND KNOW THAT YOU AREN’T DOING ANYONE ANY WRONG THEN WHY LISTEN TO THEM? THEIR OPINION ONLY COUNTS IF YOU LET IT. IF YOU BELIEVE THEM.THIRD, JUST THINK ABOUT ALL THE FRIENDS AND FAMILY THAT YOU HAVE. IF YOU WERE ALL THOSE THINGS THAT THESE HATERS SAID YOU WERE, WOULD THEY BE STICKING AROUND? WOULD THEY WANT YOU TO BE A PART OF THEIR LIFE? NO. SO DON’T LISTEN.
DELETE DELETE DELETE

STEP AWAY FROM THE COMPUTER, BREATHE IN DEEPLY, GO BACK TO THE COMPUTER AND HITDELETE. THERE’S A DELETE BUTTON FOR A REASON (AND THANK YOU TO THE COMPUTER GENIUSES THAT ADDED ONE) SO USE IT. YOU DON’T NEED TO KEEP THOSE HORRIBLE MESSAGES IN YOUR INBOX TO MAKE YOU FEEL DOWN SO DELETE THEM! THEY’RE LIKE OLD STINKY UNDERWEAR (NOT THAT I’VE EVER OWNED A PAIR OF THOSE) THEY JUST TAKE UP SPACE AND STINK UP YOUR LIFE!
WHAT IF THE PERSON GOES UP TO ME AND SAYS SOMETHING MEAN TO MY FACE? BELIEVE IT OR NOT, BUT I AM A FIRM BELIEVER THAT OUR BRAINS ALSO CONTAIN A DELETE BUTTON. WE CAN CHOOSE WHAT TO REMEMBER AND WHAT TO FORGET SO DELETE ALL THE BAD MEMORIES AND INSULTS! I PROMISE YOU, IT WORKS AND I KNOW FROM EXPERIENCE! DON’T REMEMBER OR THINK ABOUT THINGS THAT WILL MAKE YOU FEEL BAD BECAUSE NOT ONLY ARE THE HATERS GETTING WHAT THEY WANT, BUT YOU’RE HATING ON YOURSELF TOO!
BLOCK

THIS IS MAINLY FOR THOSE ONLINE HATERS ON YOUR SITES. IF THE WEBSITE YOU HAVE AN ACCOUNT IN HAS A BLOCK BUTTON, THEN USE IT TOO. YOU CANNOT IMAGINE HOW MANY TIMES THE TWITTER BLOCK BUTTON HAS SAVED ME FROM RECEIVING MESSAGE UPON MESSAGE OF HATRED! IT WORKS AND IS AMAZING. IT’S LIKE THEY WERE NEVER THERE! THEY CAN MESSAGE YOU ALL THEY WANT BUT YOU’LL NEVER GET THEM! IT’S PERFECT :)
SMILE AND LAUGH IT OFF

I REALLY BELIEVE THAT LAUGHTER IS THE BEST MEDICINE. AND WHAT BETTER WAY TO DEAL WITH HORRIBLE PEOPLE THAN BY LAUGHING? NOT ONLY WILL IT PISS THEM OFF (OKAY SO I KNOW YOU’RE LIKE ME AND IN ONE WAY OR ANOTHER YOU WANNA PISS THEM OFF) BUT IT WILL MAKE YOU FEEL GOOD. REMEMBER, IT ALL GOES BACK TO LOVING YOURSELF. IF WHAT THEY’RE SAYING ISN’T TRUE THEN LAUGH IT OFF! YOU CAN ONLY IMAGINE HOW GOOD IT’LL MAKE YOU FEEL TO SMILE AND LAUGH INSTEAD OF CRY AND FEEL BAD.
ON A SIDE NOTE: BASED ON PERSONAL EXPERIENCE, SOME OF THE HATERS I HAVE COME ACROSS ESPECIALLY ONLINE THAT CLAIM TO BE “FANS” OR LOYALISTS OF WHOEVER, HAVE REALLY, REALLY, REALLY BAD GRAMMAR AND POOR SENTENCE CONSTRUCTION. I DIDN’T EVEN NEED TO REMEMBER TO LOVE MYSELF, I JUST KEPT ON LAUGHING BECAUSE OF HOW BADLY THEY CONSTRUCTED THEIR INSULTS! :P
COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS

REMEMBER THAT AMIDST ALL THE HATE, YOU ARE BLESSED. TRULY TRULY BLESSED. COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS, NOT THE INSULTS. MY FRIEND LIZ (WHO’S SUPER PRETTY MIND YOU) ONCE TWEETED (AND I’LL NEVER FORGET THIS TWEET BECAUSE I RETWEETED IT AND MADE IT A FAVORITE) “COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS, NOT YOUR BLEMISHES” ISN’T SHE A GENIUS?! IT’S SO TRUE! DON’T COUNT ALL YOUR SUPPOSED “BLEMISHES” AND FLAWS THAT YOUR HATERS POINT OUT, COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS INSTEAD! YOU’RE ALIVE, BREATHING, YOU HAVE FOOD TO EAT, PEOPLE THAT LOVE YOU, A SCHOOL TO GO TO AND CLOTHES TO WEAR! THE BLESSINGS ARE ENDLESS! YOU’LL COME TO FIND THAT THE BLESSINGS ALWAYS OUTWEIGH THE HATE AND “BLEMISHES” ;)
BE THE BIGGER PERSON

DON’T FIGHT BACK. JUST, DON’T. YOU’RE BETTER THAN THEM AND FIGHTING BACK JUST MAKES YOU STOOP DOWN TO THEIR LEVEL. DON’T. IT DOESN’T FEEL GOOD AND YOU’LL JUST GIVE THEM MORE ROOM TO THROW AROUND MORE HATE.
AND JUST THINK ABOUT IT THIS WAY: IF THEY TELL YOU YOU’RE THIS SMALL, JUST REMEMBER THAT THEY’RE SMALLER.
DEVELOP THICKER SKIN

IT’S A SAD FACT OF LIFE BUT LIKE WHAT I SAID IN THE START, THERE WILL ALWAYS BE ONE PERSON WHO WILL MAKE IT THEIR MISSION IN LIFE TO HATE YOU AND MAKE YOU FEEL EXTRA SMALL. THE POINT IS TO KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE LIKE THAT IN THIS WORLD, AND TO TRY AND DEVELOP A THICKER SKIN AGAINST THEM. WHETHER THEY BE STRANGERS OR SCHOOLMATES, EXES OR PAST FRIENDS, THERE’S ALWAYS THAT ONE PERSON WHO’S LIFE IS JUST SO SAD, THEY WANNA PULL YOU DOWN WITH THEM TOO. IT HURTS BUT AGAIN, IT’STRUE. I HAVE PEOPLE THAT I’VE DONE NOTHING TO (AND I KNOW THEM PERSONALLY AND SEE THEM AROUND SCHOOL AND IN PARTIES) WHO HAVE JUST DECIDED TO HATE ON ME. STOP TALKING TO ME, STOP MINDING ME AND EVEN SAY BAD THINGS ABOUT ME. NOW I KNOW MOST WOULD THINK “WELL, YOU PROBABLY DID SOMETHING” BUT YOU SEE, I DIDN’T. I HAVEN’T AND I KNOW THAT. I DON’T TALK TO THEM ENOUGH OR EVEN MIND THEIR LIVES ENOUGH TO HURT THEM. THEY JUST DECIDED NOT TO LIKE ME ANYMORE. AND THERE’S NOTHING I CAN DO ABOUT THAT.
THE WORST THING YOU CAN DO IS TRY TO MAKE EVERYONE LIKE YOU. NOT EVERYONE WILL LIKE YOU SO DON’T TRY IT (PARAPHRASING A BIT FROM MEGAN FOX). IF THEY WERE OLD FRIENDS OR LOVERS OR STRANGERS IT DOESN’T MATTER. JUST REMEMBER THAT IT’S THEIR LOSS, NOT YOURS. WHILE YOU’RE BUSY TRYING TO BETTER YOURSELF AND BE KINDER, THEY’RE BUSY FILLING THEIR HEARTS AND MINDS WITH HATE. HOW SAD IS THAT?
PRAY

I REALLY BELIEVE IN PRAYER. PRAYER DOES WONDERS. IT MAKES YOU FEEL LIGHTER, MORE AT PEACE AND FILLED WITH LOVE. KNOW THAT GOD IS ALWAYS THERE. HE WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU AND BE THERE FOR YOU. WHETHER YOU HAVE BAD SKIN, LIGHT SKIN, DARK SKIN OR SCARS ALL OVER YOUR BODY, TO HIM YOU ARE PERFECTHE MADE YOU THE WAY YOU ARE FOR A REASON, DO NOT QUESTION HIM.
BUT WHY DOES HE ALLOW PEOPLE TO SAY SUCH MEAN AND HURTFUL THINGS TO ME?”
WELL, THE SAME REASON HE ALLOWS ANYBODY TO DO ANYTHING, FREE WILL. IT’S A BITTER PILL TO SWALLOW BUT WE CAN’T BLAME GOD FOR ALL THE MEAN PEOPLE IN THIS WORLD. THAT’S SOMETHING I’VE LEARNED. HE DIDN’T MAKE THEM TO HATE YOU, THEY CHOSE TO DO THE THINGS THEY DID AND SAID TO YOU. IT’S NOT HIS FAULT SO INSTEAD OF DOUBTING HIM OR GETTING ANGRY WITH HIM, PRAY TO HIM. TRUST HIM. THERE’S A REASON WHY YOU HAVE TO GO THROUGH ALL KINDS OF PEOPLE- IT’S SO THAT YOU KNOW HOW YOU WANT TO BE AS YOUR OWN PERSON. THE CHOICE IS YOURS (MATRIX REFERENCE HEEHEE) TO BE SOMEONE GOD CENTERED AND GOOD, OR HURTFUL AND AWFUL. PRAY FOR THEM! THEY OBVIOUSLY NEED YOUR PRAYERS SINCE THEIR LIVES ARE SO SAD AND MISERABLE. THEY NEED YOUR PRAYERS, NOT YOUR COMEBACKS.
Just a little something (else) I need to share:

Around January of this year, I had the unfortunate experience of letting BITTER people and IGNORANT losers get the better of me and I retaliated by posting some tweets. I didn't delete them, nor do I regret tweeting them because, well, it's how I felt about things. What I said was only how I felt and for me, was the truth. The sad part is, I shouldn't have even done that anymore. Why? Because I had come so far in ignoring the losers and haters, and in one instance, I ended up stooping down to their level.

You see, after I had posted those things, I got some tweets from people getting all defensive about what I had said. My point is this, if it's not true, and you're so close to the person, why are you so defensive? Diba? But no more of that. I won't go into detail as if you look at my Twitter feed, you will see it. I was just so sick of being bullied for something that wasn't my fault and was something I had no control over.

It made me sad to know that up to now, some people are just NOT OVER things. I mean, if you're truly happy, why cling on to the past, right? So that's one of the reasons why I snapped. Looking back now I realized that it just wasn't worth it. And from now on, I just won't let it get to me again. Ever. You can say what you want and tweet what you want but always remember, the HATRED that you so STRONGLY feel for me, doesn't take anything AWAY FROM ME, but it does take EVERYTHING AWAY FROM YOU.

As I learned from an episode of How I Met Your Mother, the people you hate so much and drop into a "pit" isn't actually the person you supposedly hate, but is yourself. 

Leave no more room for hate because then you lessen the space for love. (Uyy profound na ako? I like that line ah! Haha)

I no longer honestly have hate for anyone who bullied me and continues to bully me and spread horrible things about me cause for me, if you are so quick to believe it, then obviously you aren't meant to be a friend to me. Just remember, thousands upon thousands of people hated Jesus without even getting to know Him, or see Him in person. I AM NOT SAYING I AM AS AMAZING OR EVEN CLOSE TO BEING LIKE JESUS, bet hey, they were so wrong. So if hundreds of people hate me and say nasty things about me, just remember, a number is just a number and how many of them can actually say that I did something "bad" to them. Right? So happy Sunday, folks! :)

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27 comments

  1. Hello, Ms. Karla! I know this is not connected to your recent blog. I just can't help but ask, will you still continue your TOP story? Hahaha.

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    1. Haha hello! I will try to post TOP soon. A lot of people are actually mad at me for not posting any updates yet HAHA sorry :(

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  2. Grabe Ms. sa bait mong yan may nangbubully pa sayo? :( Ang sad naman. Pero ang ganda nito, di lang para sa mga nabubully, para 'to sa lahat. Alam mo Ms. kapag nagbabasa ako ng mga blog mo, di ka pumapalya na mapa-smile ako tsaka mainspire sa bawat word na naka-type. Napapalawak mo din yung mga realization ko sa buhay. Pakiramdam ko nga pareho na tayo mag-isip. Hihi :)

    "IF THEY TELL YOU YOU’RE THIS SMALL, JUST REMEMBER THAT THEY’RE SMALLER."

    "THE WORST THING YOU CAN DO IS TRY TO MAKE EVERYONE LIKE YOU. NOT EVERYONE WILL LIKE YOU SO DON’T TRY IT, JUST REMEMBER THAT IT’S THEIR LOSS, NOT YOURS."

    Yan yung mga favorite lines ko. :) Bakit feeling ko pareho tayo ng mga pinagdadaanan? Haha. (Soulmate?)
    Salamat sa magaganda at napaka inspiring na entries, sana madami pa. Ang sarap mo sigurong kaibigan no? Kakwentuhan. :) Pag nagcocomment ako sa mga blog mo tapos nagrereply ka, feeling ko close na tayo. :)

    Basta Ms. tandaan mo, kung marami kang haters, doble naman yung mga nagmamahal sayo. (at isa ako dun :>) Sabi nga ng teacher ko nung highschool, "pag binato ka ng bato, batuhin mo ng tinapay" tsaka "pag ginawan ka ng masama gantihan mo ng kabutihan" :) Just stay as you are. Marami ang nagmamahal sayo. :) :*

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    1. Some people just have nothing better to do with their lives. It's fine though, happy lang always ;)

      Uyyy soulmates tayo? Hihi it just sadly goes to show that bullying is really universal and it happens to a lot of people- WHICH DOESN'T MAKE IT RIGHT. I honestly just wish people found better things to do with their lives instead of spending all their time putting someone down... it's just really SO SAD.

      Aww thank you so much! Yes honestly, that's really how I look at life now. AND the best part is, I really RARELY get any hate mail anymore (Siguro napagod na sila sa DEADMA Mastery ko HAHA) and I focus on all the good and love that surrounds me. I am very thankful and grateful to have loving friends, family and readers!!! LIfe is GREAT! :)

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  3. Ako I learned to accept my physical appearance imperfections kasi I know that God created me on his own image and i do believe that he has a purpose why he created me like this not like other people who others believes that those people are perfect.

    Alam ko yung tinutukoy mo na experienced nung january and I can't blame you if nakapag post or salita ka, kasi you're right if she's happy now with her life why need to say things like that when you can say no comment nalang or try to avoid the questions. And in what i know is, nagka ex na siya or bf na siya after nics, so why still so bitter? And knowing na ang tagal na nung mag break sila ni nico.

    For me di ka naman defensive sa ginawa mo e, I mean ikaw ang sinisiraan and sinasabihan ng pangit so you all have the right to defend yourself not because you're guilty but because you know what is right. And you have the right to say/speak kasi involve ka hindi yung nakikisawsaw lang like nung mga friends niya.

    Let those other people hate you, after all sila din naman ma e stress kakaisip at gawa ng mga bagay na paninira sayo. Godbless and stay strong and very pretty!

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    1. AMEN! God made us ALL unique and we should learn to EMBRACE that about ourselves and about others! No one is the same which is the best part! You are you! :)

      Thank you so much for understanding where I was coming from, it really means a lot to know that there are still OBJECTIVE people out there who see the situation for WHAT IT IS and NOT WHAT THEY THINK IT IS. For me it's as simple as this: it was a relationship between TWO people, NO ONE ELSE. So whatever happened, happened and no one really knows every little details since they WERE NOT A PART OF IT. So there. Bahala nalang, the truth will come out sooner or later and whether they choose to accept it or not is their choice. But for me, moving forward lang dapat always :)

      Thank you so much sweetie!!! :)

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  4. Hater's gonna hate. Hating a gorgeous, kind, and down to earth person like you won't make them pretty. haha. so, you better laugh it off ms. Karla! :)

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    1. Haba ng hair!!! Thank you so much Hihi I'm so touched!!!! :):):)

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  5. Hi Karla! :) This blog of yours is truly inspirational. It triggered some memories from my past... I was bullied since elementary until high school by my classmates and teachers. I never really understood why they hated me so much. I know that I had my flaws but I believed that I didn't deserve to be rejected and isolated. I can't really remember how they have done it. I can't describe to you how they treated me. I can't even remember the words they have said to me... But I can't forget how they made me feel. I know I tried my best to please everyone to like me... I felt miserable, stupid and alone! I have to say that it was the worst days of my life!

    On a lighter note, I am a better person now. Stronger than ever! This may sound bad but I am indifferent now. I really don't care what people say as long as I have a clear conscience. My life is not about them, it is about ME...That may sound eccentric but I am too busy loving my life and the people who love me! Life is too short to waste my time hating. :) And the most important lesson of all, NEVER think that you're alone. God is always with you! :)

    Sorry if my message is not constructed well... It has really been a long day! I just can't stop myself from sharing. :) Anyway, I hope you will always be an inspiration to others Karla! I hope to meet you someday. God bless. Take care! xox
    --- G :) <3

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    1. Hi G! It isn't sad to be indifferent! Honestly, it's BETTER to be indifferent especially when it comes to uncalled for hatred. It's absurd talaga how MEAN people can be! I am glad that you moved past every obstacle and every mean thing that was thrown at you. You should be PROUD of yourself for becoming so strong. A lot of people experiencing bullying right now can learn a lot from you. Thank you for sharing our story with me. I'm glad to know you turned out great! :) And yes, GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US!!!! :)

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  6. Hullo Karla :) Thank you for this. As I was reading this entry of yours, all I did was to nod my head in agreement with every thing you've just said. You have no idea (or maybe you do) how I could relate to every single thing. I'm currently experiencing it - fake friends who say bad stuff about me, and the most they could do is make parinig on Twitter and don't even have the guts to mention me. I did what you've said, a couple of days ago, DELETE. And, boy, it felt amazing! I swear! I mean, we don't have to listen or read or think about what pathetic people say about us simply because they're irrelevant and they do not matter. I honestly don't get why people are such attention-whores, maybe you're right - they have sad and miserable lives. And if they're going to mock us, at least do it without grammatical errors, diba? Nakakahiya naman saten.

    So there. I just shared a snippet of my experience with you kase I know you'd understand and I, you. :) Thank you so much for you brilliant mind, Karls! Don't mind your haters, they're just insecure and jealous and dumbasses. You ARE talented and a lot of awesome adjectives more. Hihi.

    I've missed talking to you virtually. Hehe :) - Cielo x

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    1. Hi Cielo, thank you for sharing your story with me and my readers. It's good to know that you are choosing to move forward and be the bigger person. Remember, you shouldn't feel sad about "losing" these so-called "friends" cause they were never real friends to begin with. Real friends don't do that and I'm glad you found out now rather than later when you would've invested way more in the friendship. Don't worry, God will reward you with better friends! :)

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  7. This is one of your best blog entries so far ate karla. I think everybody would be able to relate to this(who never had haters or have been bullied, right?. And I agree that smiling and laughing are really one of the best cures of these pain brought by haters, especially if you are with your family and your true friends (yes, true, some kasi Fair weathered friends lang.) Truly inspiring.

    Your blog doesn't only tell us about latest fashion trends, good restaurants or chill places where to hang out but how to face life. It is very rare to find a blog like this and I really am honored to be one of those who got a chance to be inspired by you. :)

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    1. Hi Eunice! Wow, what a great way to start my Monday morning! I haven't even had my cup of coffee yet and already I feel so up and happy by your comment. Thank you so much. I really wanted to make a blog that would touch on everything about life and how I cope with issues and things in my life and how it can maybe help my readers as well. I'm glad you enjoyed this entry and I hope you come back for more! Thank you again :)

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  8. The mere fact that some people can't live without hatred in their hearts, it's devastating. Especially to those bully victims like most of us. I also bullied before in elementary because of my physical appearance. I know i'm not pretty or thin or whatever. I remember getting nervous and all whenever i go to school. I just wanted to stay home and lock myself. I didn't want to see every people and myself as well. But,there was one line in a book i just thought of "God doesn't give you any suffering/struggle that you can't handle." And now, here i am. I feel stronger and more confident. It's all about being happy with who you are. For those who like to bully and don't want to stop it, keep in mind that karma's a bitch. Just wait for it. You'll never know what happens next. :) And for those who were bullied before and up until now, Just be strong. Maybe we feel that life is so unfair sometimes but it's not. Just pray to God to give you more strength and courage to continue this life he blessed us. :) thank you ate karla for being an inspiration to many. I'll always thank you for every inspiring blog post you have and i'll never get tired. I love you >:D<

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    1. Hi Romelyn! I love that line as well and I super believe it. God allows things to happen because we become stronger in the end. It's all for a greater purpose. I really wanted to make an entry like this because even in other countries bullying gets SO BAD that people kill themselves. THAT ISN'T RIGHT! I just hope that people realize that bullying is NO JOKE and that people have to be more responsible in the fight against bullying. Thank you for reading my blog! :) xx

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  9. Ate Karla, even though you don't know that I exist, I'm your no. 1 fan and that blog, OMG. Thanks talaga kasi I'm suffering din in the same situation. You're such a good person. :)

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    1. Hi Ricka! Well now I know you exist and hello! Hihi :) I will pray for you! Kaya mo yan!

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  10. Hi Karla! :) It was my faith in God that kept me going. Children who are being bullied at school should have the courage to speak up. Talk to their parents or teachers and NEVER forget to pray. It was undeniably a difficult struggle and no one should face it alone. It is saddening when you hear in the news about teenagers committing suicide because of bullying. Some people will never understand why they chose to take away their life instead of standing up for themselves but honestly it is not that easy. It is not easy to be heard. It is not easy to ask someone for help, to be sensitive and to be selfless. Sometimes the only way to survive is not to care about what other people think and yet to be sensitive and compassionate. It is easy to be human but it is hard to be humane. :)

    I hope this blog of yours will reach thousands of people and let them realize that they are NOT alone. All they need is to have a different perspective and attitude towards their haters. Life is a gift from God, we should enjoy it and make our existence count. :)

    God bless, Karla! --- Gia :) <3

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    1. Thank you, Gia. I agree with you completely. Victims of bullying have to understand that there is a way out, and that by prayer and counseling, they can be helped. It's just so cruel when people find pleasure in bullying others... it makes no sense. NO SENSE and merely reflects the type of person they actually are- a sick, sad and unhappy individual with no life. Ugh. Thank you for your kind words, I hope this entry helps people! :)

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  11. Hi Ate Karla! (feeling close lang) Sobrang galing mo po talagang magsulat. Tumatagos talaga sa puso yung mga sinasabi mo. Kagabi lang topic ka namin ng sister ko. Super bow kami sayo na, di lang maganda mabait pa at matalino. Kahit di ka pa po namin nakikita sa personal. Ang pag ka Idol namin sayo ka level ni Sarah G. hehe :) Hawig po pala kayo ni kuya nico. kaya soulmates talaga kayo! :)

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    1. Ka level ko si Sarah G!?!?! OMG can I have my own show- Karla A. Live? Haha joke. I'm so lame HUHU :( Thank you for your sweet comment, Merilouise. I really do hope more people see that bullying isn't a joke. At all. Hope you come back for more entries! :)

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  12. Hi Ate Karla, this my favorite of all your entries I even told my friends to visit your blog because its just great! Alam mo yun, walang halong kaplastikan  Totoong kung totoo!! Pak na pak  I would love to talk to you personally feeling ko kase super saya niyo kausap, very calm! Yung tipong badtrip ka then I would just talk to you then Boom goodvibes all the way na!! Anyway, would look forward with your other entries!! Keep Safe Ate Karla! xx
    - A

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    1. Hi A! Thank you for your comment and thank you for sharing my blog with your friends... It means a lot to know that my entries can touch and inspire even in the simplest ways. I'd love to meet you I. Person as well someday. Hopefully our paths will cross. Take care sweetie :)

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  13. Wow, sa lagay na yan, someone hates you pa? insecure ata. most of them are. :) Thank you for this! helped a lot! :))

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    1. There will always be people who will hate on you. The important thing is not to let them affect you :) You're welcome, I'm glad it did! :)

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